January 7th, 1995 … My Life and Death Story – Part 1

I woke up this morning with the same words that come out of my mouth first every January 7th. “I’m Alive.” I’ll never be able to forget what happened 13 years ago. January 7th, 1995.

It was a typical winter Saturday in Indiana. We had gotten about 4 inches of snow on the ground through the night, so my buddies and I decided to go toboggan sledding, like we had the year before. For those of you who know what toboggan sledding is, what we were talking about wasn’t your typical toboggan sledding deal, with a track and an hourly waged employee helping you on and off the sled while instructing you to “keep your hands, and arms tucked inside at all times.” No, we were going Extreme Toboggan sledding.

We drove to a campground about 30 minutes north of where we lived and would spend the day riding on a toboggan sled tied behind a pick up truck with a ski rope. We used couch cushions to make the ride less bumpy. When we arrived at the campground, my brother and I opened the trunk and started to pull out 2 snowmobile helmets we had from our childhood. At once, all of our friends began immediately mocking. “Did your mom make you bring those?” “The 1970’s called, they want their helmets back.” “What are you 8 years old?” So without another thought, we replied with a “Just kiddin'” and threw them back in the trunk.

Extreme sledding is quite an exhilarating thing to do on a Saturday in Indiana. It’s got all the elements of fun 6 late teen and early 20 something guys look for. Speed, risk, adrenaline, and danger. What we didn’t realize, or perhaps more accurately had chosen to overlook was just how much danger it had.

It was late in the day (around 4 pm) and it was my brother and I’s turn to ride. Sled, cushions, Nick, and myself. Stacked up one on top of the other like a cold meat sandwich on hoagie bread. Nick’s head was tucked up under the curl of the toboggan sled to shield his face from the massive amounts of snow flying toward us. My face was situationed facing down into the back of my brother’s head, to shield my face from the snow. Little did we know that snow would be the least of our concerns in about 30 seconds.